We may earn commission from links on this page, but we only recommend products we love. I was making small talk with some girls I didn't know too well. Another chimed in with a story about coaxing a hesitant ex into experimenting with rougher, kinkier stuff. Pretty soon, we were all gabbing about forceful sex with the same breezy air we'd use to discuss an episode of The Mindy Project. Even otherwise-decorous party guests seemed to have something to say about, say, slapping and spanking during sex. Since that party, the topic of rough sex has come up again and again, as improbable as discussing it in public once seemed to be. It's not that rough sex as a concept is new the Romans were down with it, according to ancient frescoesbut rather, rough ex seems to have come out of the closet. Women and men!
Accurate, some will let you know accurately what they like in bedbut others have a harder time expressing their needswhich can make the general of idea of women wanting sex before the whole let-me-d0-that-thing-you-love exchange a bit more difficult. In the absence of mind-reading, there are some universal things men can do to help choose women in the bedroom. From improving communication, finding the right tempo, after that incorporating sex toysthere are many areas in which you can do advance. So what are the most agreeable things to do to a woman?