I mean, the point of it is literally just to have fun. Maybe you're doing it for the wrong reasons, maybe you're doing it with the wrong person — when it comes to a one night stand, you need to be careful. Because as much as it's meant to be no-strings-attached, it can be a lot more complicated if you don't do it correctly. Luckily, it's easy to avoid a messy situation. There are a lot of little tricks to make sure that a one-night stand is everything it's supposed to be — a fun, weird, random break from the rest of your life. Sex for sex's sake, where you can really let go of your inhibition and have a great time. Sound like fun?
The purpose of this post is not to bring out the moral before judgemental police, nor is it a propos wanting to ignite a conversation so as to further dilutes something I personally assume we can do a lot advance at understanding and not judging. I want to provide for you, all that I wish was said en route for me about one night stands. I think one night stands are actual confusing, unnecessarily judged, and extremely ambiguous. Regardless, both are not constructive. They are destructive. One was a accurate one night stand and the erstwhile was a one night stand… so as to turned into a relationship… that lasted over a year. Looking back, equally had a degree of shame allied with them. The shame sabotaged the relationship I had with myself, after that in the case where it bowed into a relationship, the other person. Just like there are two altered depictions of one night stands, around are two different reactions most ancestor get when sharing their one dark stand experiences.