Every guy I've dated has requested anal at some point, even to the point of begging. This experience seems to be ubiquitous in heterosexual relationships. Why do men love anal sex? Does anal really feel that much better than vaginal sex? What's the appeal? Anal sex is naughty to many people, Dr. Blair says, and penetrating someone that way can make them feel dominant.
But it feels good, anything goes! Cisgender men and people assigned male by birth have a prostateso in these cases a butt orgasm results as of stimulating the prostate. You can accelerate the P-spot through the perineum, which is the runway of skin amid the balls and the anus. This is how anal orgasms work designed for cisgender women and people assigned lady at birth. Anal penetration indirectly stimulates the A-spot in the vagina. The A-spot, or anterior fornix if you want to get fancy, is located deep inside the vagina — about 5 or 6 inches in. It feels like intense waves of amusement that begin deep inside your amount and radiate through the rest of your body.
Art is currently trying to figure absent why so-called prostate orgasms feel accordingly intense—but, frankly, the why is immaterial. So, I talked with Sex after that Relationships coach Dr. Charlie Glickman, PhD, who literally wrote the book arrange prostate pleasure to explain just how to enjoy this under-appreciated erogenous district. Glickman's first point? Plus, porn stars are people who are likely having anal sex multiple times a week. For the best chance at a life-changing, earth-quaking orgasm, he also recommends—seriously, listen to this—experimenting with butt act solo at first.