One year-old singleton shares her tips for swiping right Online dating sites such as Tinder have made single people spoilt for choice when searching for partner. Photograph: Alamy Online dating sites such as Tinder have made single people spoilt for choice when searching for partner. Photograph: Alamy Sun 15 Nov I remember the day after, when my flatmate asked me how it went. I beamed at her over my cup of tea. I met that man about 10 years ago. Millions of other people. Our lonely little hearts are very big business. But until you win the grand prize — never having to do it again — it always feels a last resort, the sign that you possess a fatal flaw that has prevented the achievement of true love through one of the more classic routes: pulling a stranger in a bar, meeting someone at a house party, sleeping with your employer.
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