Kia ora! And yes, that picture you see paired with the article is actually one of my wedding photos! Now, of course, this list is totally subjective and not at all complete. We all have our own individual needs and wants when it comes to choosing a life partner, so consider my list of 8 things simply a catalyst for your own creative thinking about this topic. Choose someone for their invisible qualities. Choose someone for the feelings they evoke in you. For the quality of their character and soul. Not for their looks, their professional accolades, their paycheck. All of this will fade and change and ebb over the course of time.